How to be a fantastic kisser

First and most importantly, you've got to want to kiss her. That seems simple, but it's a good bit less obvious than it seems. If you want to be a good kisser, you can't focus on what you want to happen after the kiss. You've got to want to be kissing her right then and there.

Second, DON'T OPEN YOUR MOUTH LIKE A FISH. We're kissing a piece of perfection, not trying to imitate a koi. When you open your mouth too much, lip on lip contact is reduced, and it honestly just gets harder to make the kiss intimate. Relaxing your lips and allowing them to rest gently on each other will make for a great bit of smooching.

Third, don't be afraid to use your hands! Girls dream of kisses like the ones they see in the movies. You never see those guys standing there awkwardly with their hands at their sides while they make out, do you? No. You don't. Girls love to feel safe, and sometimes a little bit controlled by the guy when they're being kissed. Easy way to do this? Move your hands around, put pressure on certain erogenous zones, pull her hair a bit, and let her know you appreciate her body!

Fourth, the less tongue, the better! Don't try to make her gag. Your tongue shouldn't be the main part of your kiss - that still belongs to the lips. The tongue is more of a teaser, or a toy. Play hard to get with your tongue, and entice her with the inconsistency. Make her want to come get you.

Finally, enjoy it. If you're not relaxed and you can't enjoy kissing the girl, chances are she won't enjoy it either. Kissing is a bit like dancing - the more you relax and just have fun, the better you get.

The Gentle Kiss - This is a favorite for many girls. It's soft, romantic, doesn't seem forceful or pushy, and allows them to dream. The gentle kiss is great in almost any situation, and really isn't inappropriate, even in public. One of my favorite things to do with this kiss is to bite their bottom lip a little, and give them a little tug. It adds a certain 'hotness' factor to the already gentle, subdued nature of the kiss.

The Peck - This one's kinda obvious. The simple peck on the cheek, lips, neck, shoulder... extremely versatile. The best in public, and it can be used really effectively as a tease to lead to more sensual smooches.

The Passionate Kiss - This is the kiss that most often leads to more. Most often, this occurs as a sort of foreplay that leads up to something a good bit more physical. Hand movement is really essential here - you've GOT to let her know how excited she makes you... let her know that she is your deepest, darkest desire. Don't be afraid to get a little rough and bite, or tug on her hair a bit.

The Neck Kiss - This is another big favorite. The neck is an erogenous zone for girls, and some guys. It's extremely vulnerable, and allowing someone to place their lips on that area is a show of trust. Make sure you start out gentle and slow, then build up to more intense kisses. Movement is really important here - I like to follow the line of their jaw, down the sides of their neck, and over the throat. This'll leave most girls gasping for air in the best way possible. You can even use a little tongue if you want, but do NOT use a lot.

The Ear Kiss - Again, this is a common favorite. It's pretty self explanatory - you're kissing her ear. Be gentle, follow the curves, and be sure to use your tongue and teeth. Don't full out lick her or chomp down, but follow the lines with the tip of your tongue, flick the lobe, nibble... cute things like that.

The Upside Down Kiss - Kiss upside down. Simple as that. DON'T use much tongue with this one - it'll get messy fast.

Guys, when you kiss a girl, let her know you want her. Make her feel good about herself, and she'll do it back. Hopefully. If she doesn't... find another girl. Don't be afraid of her lips, or her body. Don't be afraid! If you're kissing her, it should be because you're comfortable with her, and trust her, or just simply because you want to. Whatever the reason, put confidence behind your lips, and it'll almost never turn out badly. Good luck!